“When you don’t have the burden of living with unexplored fantasies, life becomes interesting again.” ― Goddess Severa Goddess Severa has come a long way since her straight-laced beginnings. Raised with Victorian-style expectations, her BDSM inclinations surfaced in early childhood, when she fantasized about spanking. She learned to withhold her preferences when a partner called her “freaky,” until she moved to NYC on … Continue reading Risks, Whips and Pleasure: 4 Common Myths About Kink and BDSM