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A spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration! Health and sexuality writer August McLaughlin explores sexual empowerment like no one else. She’s the fearless sister/girlfriend you’ve always wanted and she wants you to feel inspired and well-equipped to arouse your life, in and outside of the bedroom. Girl Boner Radio is LGBTQIA+-friendly and all genders are welcome.
Girl Boner Radio is owned, operated and executively produced by August McLaughlin with technical producer and audio extraordinaire Makenzie Mizelle of Period Network. To inquire about sponsorship opportunities, apply to appear as a guest or submit a question for August and Dr. Megan Fleming, click here!
Featured episodes:
Feeling Disconnected, Discovering Desires
Dr. Alexandra Katehakis joins August to explore the ABCs of consent, boundary-setting for stronger intimacy, what to do when betrayal feels like assault, discussing vulnerable sex topics, sex addiction/compulsivities and more! With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener who says sex with his wife feels like she’s doing him a favor.
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Extreme Love, Brain Cancer, Pleasure
Ethan Lipsitz, host of Love Extremist Radio, joins August to explore his personal journey, illness and sexuality, love as activism and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’s curious about supporting a partner who struggles to have erections or orgasms.
Dominatrix Fantasies and BDSM
Mistress Justine Cross joins August to explore her career, BDSM and what we can all learn from its tenants, even if you’re more “vanilla” than kinky. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’s curious about bondange: can it spice up your sex life?
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Is There Still Sex in the City?
Candace Bushnell, author of Sex and the City and more celebrated books, joins August to explore her professional journey, “cougars” and “cubs,” dating in the digital age, her latest book and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’s nervous about menopause.
Shameless Sex and Spirituality
What does chocolate cake have to do with porn consumption? Is the clitoris in the Bible? Can you embrace Christian faith and sex-positivity at the same time? Bestselling author Nadia Bolz-Weber and actress Amy Brenneman join August to explore healing from sexual shame, talking to kids about sex, positive versus negative first sexual experiences and Nadia’s groundbreaking latest book, Shameless: A Sexual Reformation.
Solo Play, Lube and Designer Relationships
Sexual exploration, more pleasure, undoing shame! Dr. Shannon Chavez joins August to explore masturbation tips for beginners, reaching orgasm when you feel blocked, creating relationships that suit your values and more. Dr. Megan Fleming shares her favorite self-pleasure tip.
Girl Boner Journal with Queers Next Door
Turning points, self care, polyamory, body-confidence! Megan Ashley and Sex Coach Leigh of Queers Next Door join August to explore their sexual empowerment journeys, from Megan’s decision to pursue sex work full time to Leigh’s experience with PMDD. The interview streamed live on Facebook (@MyGirlBoner) in May. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on jealousy.
An Orgasm MRI, Girl Boners and Solo Play
Orgasms, masturbation, self-love! In this special bonus episode recorded live at a Skirt Club event, August reads from Girl Boner. Then sex therapist Dr. Shannon Chavez interviews her about Girl Boners, sexual empowerment, her first solo play experience, sex tips and journaling for sexual self-discovery.
Body-love, Polyamory and Sex-Positivity
Spicy photoshoots, polyamory, kink for self-discovery! Author Beverly Diehl joins August to explore her breast cancer diagnosis, a daring boudoir photoshoot, being polyamorous and kinky, herpes stigma, oral sex, consent and sex-positivity. With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener whose poly-identifying partner is choosing monogamy for her sake.
Coming Out LGBTQ When You’re Christian
Amber Cantorna, author of Unashamed: A Coming-Out Guide for LGBTQ Christians, joins August to explore her journey coming out as gay to her conservative Christian family— including her father, a Focus on the Family executive. Amber also shares thoughts on when to come out as LGBTQIA+, ways to do so safely, addressing internalized homophobia, moving past shame, embracing your faith and your identity simultaneously and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who has a mighty crush on her therapist.
Clitoris Facts and Tips
In this Girl Boner quickie, August debunks common myths about the clitoris and shares a few sexual pleasure tips, including ways to tantalize the inner-clit and a sex position that makes orgasm during penis-in-vagina sex more likely. Learn more in August’s Girl Boner books.
Painful Sex and Peyronie’s Disease
Don Cummings, author of the memoir Bent But Not Broken, joins August to discuss Peyronie’s disease, a common condition that causes bent and painful erections. They discuss Don’s own experience, including his treatment involving injections and the Andropenis (aka penis stretcher), and the impact the condition has had on his psyche and relationship. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who has interstitial cystitis and would like to feel less anxiety and more desire around sex.
Sex with a Sociopath: 5 Signs
In this Girl Boner Quickie episode, August shares five sexual signs that your partner may be on the sociopath or narcissist spectrum. Learn more by streaming the full episode she pulled quotes from here.
In “Love” with a Sociopath
In this 10-minute Girl Boner Quickie, August shares a story she wrote about her experience with emotional abuse while dating someone on the sociopath spectrum. To read this content and find links to the Dating a Sociopath podcast series, click here.
Blended Orgasms and a Sex Toy Making Waves
Lora Dicarlo won the CES Innovation Award for Osé, a hands-free sex toy for vulva owners that stimulates the clitoris and G-spot at the same time. But then, the award was rescinded. August interviews the company’s CEO, Lora Haddock, and its marketing director, Sarah Brown, about the toy, blended orgasms and their desire to raise awareness around gender bias in tech. The pair also wants to encourage people who long for something that doesn’t exist to take the leap and create it.
250 Girl Boners, Oh My!
August looks back on memorable moments from five years and 250 episodes of Girl Boner Radio. This extra special episode features unique sex ed stories, female sexual arousal and squirting 101, inspiring interview excerpts, a creepy in-studio happening, tips for inviting more pleasurable sex and more.
Sex in the Media and Altered States of BDSM
Isabelle Kohn, a journalist, educator, and consultant who works at a sex store, joins August to explore media portrayals of sexuality, ways BDSM transports people “into a flow” and more. With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener who’s frustrated that women express interest in dating him then don’t follow through.
Sex Toys, Self-Care and Prioritizing Intimacy
CalExotics’ resident sexologist Dr. Jill McDevitt joins August to talk about giving sex toys as gifts, including when doing so is appropriate and hot new picks when it is. She also shares tips for prioritizing sexual intimacy and self-care during the holidays and other hectic times
Sketchy vs. Empowering Dating Advice
Pickup artistry gets a bad rap, but are some PUAs decent guys? August chats with Drew Schroeder, a pickup artist who goes against the industry grain. Then Sexual Intuitive® Susanna Brisk joins August to explore the whys behind incels, dating dos and don’ts and the worst dating advice listeners have ever heard.
Better Sex + Emotional Triggers
Hungry for hotter sex? The secret may have little to do with actual sex. Kait Scalisi, MPH of PassionbyKait.com joins August to explore contextual keys to better sex, coping with emotional triggers, potential perks of anal play, sexy gifts and more! Dr. Megan Fleming replies to a listener whose partner’s BDSM style reminds her of her abusive ex, triggering embodied trauma.
Sex Robots + Virtual Reality
VR webcam girl, activist and entrepreneur Ela Darling joins August for a chat about sex and VR! What are the potential pros and cons? And can sex robots replace humans in the bedroom? Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who made a sex tape with her boyfriend and has been judging herself harshly ever since.
Curvy Body Sex + Sexual Self-inquiry
Sex positions, vibrators and mindfulness! Elle Chase and Cyndi Darnell join August McLaughlin for a chat on body acceptance, maximizing pleasure, ways to be more present during sex and navigating libido differences. Also, can intentionally slowing arousal down while using sex toys bring Girl Boner perks?
Surviving Sex Trafficking in the U.S.
Survivor, TEDx speaker and crisis response case worker Tika Thornton joins August to explore her personal experience being sex-trafficked in LA, how she found healing and what we should all know about the trafficking crisis locally and abroad. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener on mutual masturbation and related erectile dysfunction when intercourse is triggering for his partner due to sexual abuse.
Girl Boner Beginnings
August shares the personal story that inspired her titillating series and outreach and asks folks on the street: “What is a Girl Boner?” See a video version of the episode here.
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