A few years ago, I met Elle the Author at the LA Times Festival of Books, where we shared a table. We’d both written psych thrillers loosely based on personal (traumatic) experience, shared a background in acting and an obsession with lofty dreams, and couldn’t seem to stop squealing enthusiastically at passersby.
“If we sing and dance do you think they’ll buy our books?!?!?” That sort of thing.
(TG it finally dawned on us that we were scaring kind strangers away…)
We’ve since cohosted a live-streamed anorexia and abuse themed “happy hour” (long story), caught up over lunches, celebrated her newfound love and supported each other’s ventures from afar.
Elle has appeared on Girl Boner® before, for excellent reasons:
A – She’s a brilliant communicator.
B – She has a lot to say about thriving against the odds, relationship abuse and, most recently, breast cancer.
C – She contributed a gorgeous story for Embraceable, written the night before her double mastectomy. Here’s an excerpt:
They’re just tits. Granted, yours are fabulous, but they’re still just tits.
No matter how many times others or even I convey this to me, I refuse to believe it. I love the way my tits feel when I glide my fingers over them, the way my boyfriend’s fingers do it much better. I relish the feel of hot breath on my nipples that causes tingles down to my toes. I adore the bottom curve of a supple tit when it is hanging free and I am carnally drawn to the very unnatural curve caused by the push-up bra. My tits are the tits, as they say. And now they are taking them away from me.
More specifically, cancer is taking them away from me.
D – She’s one of the bravest people I know.
One year after her initial cancer diagnosis, just as she was beginning to feel fully like herself again, she received daunting medical news; cancer had returned. When I learned she was visiting LA shortly after, I told her I’d love to see her, if she felt up for it. Her response? “Is it a good time for an interview?” She was feeling raw, she said, which made it an ideal time.
Like I said, BRAVE.
Our chat goes down as one of my all-time faves. Definitely stay tuned for the end, for happy news you’ll want to hear.
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What did you think of the episode? Any thoughts to share with Elle? What did you think of Dr. Megan’s advice on staying close to a partner through dark times? I love hearing from you.