Have you ever considered having or giving a prostate massage? Have you wondered what even happens during such a massage? Or perhaps you’ve bought into one of the common related myths (which is super easy to do). The following article, written by Erica Suarez-Hillingdon, a sex expert and editor at Karma Tantric, London’s premier tantric and prostate massage agency, should help set a few things straight.
Debunking 7 Common Prostate Massage Myths
By Erica Suarez-Hillingdon
Over the years, sex has been a taboo in many areas of the world. In some regions, it still is an unspoken pleasure, however, in recent times, many sexual connotations have been busted. Prostate massage, in particular, is the subject of varying assumptions. For those unfamiliar with the concept of this widely used sensual experience, let me demystify a few prostate massage myths.
Myth 1: Prostate massage is only for gay men
I’m sure many cisgender gay men enjoy the experience of prostate massage, but so do many heterosexual men, trans women and non-binary people. No matter what your sexuality is, prostate massage is a stimulating and sensual type of massage that can be enjoyed by all penis owners. A survey conducted by prostate massage provider Karma Tantric found that 71% of straight cis men had tried or would attempt to use a prostate massager.
Myth 2: Men in relationships can’t enjoy prostate massage
Performing an erotic massage can be a healthy part of a sexual relationship. It can bring contentment and increase the intimacy between partners. A professional prostate massage offers valuable benefits, such as helping to address erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, which can boost your sexual confidence to provide you and a partner with a better sex life, connecting you on both an emotional and physical level.
Myth 3: Women aren’t into it
Many women and people with vulvas appreciate prostate massage. The same survey results by Karma Tantric found that 80% of women would be happy to give their partner a prostate massage. Couples can also engage in a prostate massage together to increase intimacy, as well as sexual pleasure. This new experience can be positive for all genders.
Having a professional prostate massage can provide additional benefits, such as ensuring that you’re relaxed enough to enjoy a stronger orgasm or preventing premature ejaculation.
Myth 4: It’s only for medical reasons
While prostate massage offers an array of benefits for your health, like lowering the risk of prostate cancer, it’s also a highly pleasurable activity. Many people see the word ‘prostate’ and automatically think of an examination. However, a prostate massage can help you achieve a more gratifying sex life. Many penis owners have stated that they have achieved firmer erections, stronger orgasms and longer lasting sex as a result.
Myth 5: There’s no difference between penile and prostate orgasm
There’s a big difference between penile and prostate orgasm. Surveys have demonstrated that a prostate orgasm is around 33% stronger, some even calling the prostate the “male G-spot.” For many people, a prostate massage can feel like the beginning of an orgasm, but one that’s longer lasting and more intense.
Myth 6: It isn’t healthy
Contrary to popular belief, prostate massage is a safe and clean experience that has many benefits for your health. It can actually help address an enlarged prostate and lower the risk of infections and prostate cancer. It’s easy for the majority of healthy penis owners to clean the anal area; just ensure that you shower regularly and wash the area well. The anal area is normally very clean anyway and feces is stored high in the bowel, so there’s no need to worry about your massage making a mess.
Myth 7: It’s an unsafe practice
Prostate massage is completely safe, when you work with a knowledgeable expert who understands how the body works. This ensures that harm is averted throughout your massage. Many people find extreme pleasure in experiencing a prostate massage, even if it’s their first time. Continuous massage will help you achieve mind-blowing sensations of satisfaction, improving your sexual confidence, as well as heightening sexual intimacy and connection with a partner.