It’s that time of year again, when sugarplums boogie to that old favorite: “Jingle bells, jingle bells, OHMYGOD, what should I get for him/her/them?” I obviously won’t be gifting anyone original tunes this year. But you see my point!
No matter how you feel about the holidays, meaningful goodies can go a long way toward brightening the season. Thankfully, you don’t have to spend a ton of money. Many of the most beloved gifts cost little more than time spend daydreaming.
The key in getting the right gift for your partner is knowing their love languages, according to Dr. Megan.
“Is it words of affirmation? Is it acts of service? What might, in particular for them, be a turn on?” she suggests considering. From there, let your imagination run wild!
Need a little inspiration? Consider these spicy and romantic gift ideas.
A jar or book of sexy coupons for your partner to redeem
Breakfast in bed, served and enjoyed naked
Original love poetry
An original short story—erotic or romantic fiction or nonfiction!
A picture book of your favorite sexy selfies or shared memories from the year
A couple’s sex toy (check out the awesome special below!)*
A sensual massage, by you or a professional
A fantasy enacted, such as an adventurous role-playing date!
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Last but not least, I’m told my latest book Embraceable makes a groovy stocking stuffer. Find it on Amazon, Barnes&Noble.com or iTunes. I’m offering a free phone or Skype Q&A chat for your book club or group of friends! Simply contact me here, mentioning the Holiday Chat Special.
And here is a special gift for you all—my chat with the incomparable Sandra Valls! The celebrated comedian and I gabbed not only about sensual holiday gifts, but her personal journey to embracing herself and sexuality, her dynamic career, coming out as a lesbian and Latina, phone sex tips and more!
What’s your favorite romantic or sexy gift to give or receive? What did you think of my chat with Sandra? I love hearing from you!
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