Let’s be real. You don’t need to go to great lengths to spice up your sex life or to keep it smoldering. Everything from trying a new position to indulging in a new dating adventure beforehand can turn up the heat and keep those punch-drunk brain chemicals going.
But what if your Girl Boner takes over when there’s no comfy surface in sight? Or you have a hankering for something super outside of the box? A fair number of folks have had sex in, shall we say, unusual places. While some turn out to be mega hot, I’m sure most of us have tried a should-be-sexy experience that turned out to be a lot lustier in our heads.
I loved exploring some of the most popular places people have had sex in public, according to a study, ways to make car sex more comfortable, funny sex stories and more with Natasha Chandel on Girl Boner Radio.
Here are some of the places we covered:
- Public park, field, forest or garden
- Beach or ocean
- Public restroom
- School, university or library
- Dressing room
- Swimming pool
- Church parking lot
The creative executive and host of the Kinda Dating podcast also shared dating advice that applies to sex, too. Approach dating with an attitude of fun and friendship, she said, adding that “no part of you dies when you date someone and it doesn’t work out. We all meet people, we all break up with people and we all survive.”
Setting realistic expectations, seeking adventures and knowing that all sex doesn’t have to be the best thing ever can go far in our Girl Boner lives. And when things get rough, and not in a kinky way, we can learn, grow and move on.