What’s the sexiest gift you’ve ever given or received? That’s a question I asked my email subscribers recently. Starting with my latest episode, I’m sharing some of their awesome responses on Girl Boner Radio. So far a spicy original love song, luxury sex toys and a seductive dance have topped the list.
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For me, that’s a tough question to answer. I suppose intimate and romantic experiences have been my favorites to receive, whether planned or impromptu (OMG, that hot tub adventure… *swoon*), and sensual photos and stories have been my favorites to give. I’ve also gifted toys, lube, sensual vittles and massages. The key, I think, is understanding a bit about the recipient’s preferences and desires then letting creativity flow.
Last week on Girl Boner Radio I chatted with Dr. Victoria Reuveni, a fabulous sexologist and orgasmic yoga instructor in LA. I loved what she had to say about sexy gifts, the perks of orgasmic yoga and more. I also shared highlights from my Skype chat with Katy Zvolerin, director of public relationships for Adam and Eve, including top-selling toys for penis pleasure.
Here are just some of the sexy gifts and discounts we featured! To hear more ideas, the scoop on orgasmic yoga and some of the coolest sound effects ever heard on Girl Boner Radio (thanks, Victoria!) stream the episode on iTunes, iHeartRadio, Spotify or most anywhere you listen to podcasts. Read on to learn about just some of our awesome picks, plus a few groovy discounts!
Thoughtful and Sexy Gifts for You or Your Partner
A Bawdy Bookworms Box or Subscription
The brain really is the most powerful sex organ and for many of us, little is as enticing as erotica. Pair that with thematic sexy goodies sent monthly, and you have a gift that literally keeps on giving. “Our subscription box meets virtual book club was created because we know that smart women enjoy reading a well-written romance with plenty of hot, sexy scenes,” reads the company’s website. Founded by Thien-Kim Lam, the specially curated boxes arrive in discreet packaging and come with access to a private forum where you can gab about the spicy reads with others.
Save 10% on a single or subscription gift from Bawdy Bookworms with the promo code GIRLBONER.
A Magic Wand
Some sexy gifts and magic go hand in hand. The Hitachi Magic Wand is probably the most praised sex toy among Girl Boner Radio guests. Victoria brought one into the studio and even shared some of its buzz. (My favorite part? It sort of looks like a microphone.) Its length allows for easy access to most any body part you’d like to tantalize with powerful, sensual buzz. The Pleasure Chest recommends using it for “an orgasmic experience that’s almost otherworldly.” *fans self*
Best Women’s Erotica of the Year, Volume 3
I’m a little biased here, as this newly released book includes a story of mine—but even if it didn’t, I’d recommend the whole series! Edited by the fabulous Rachel Kramer Bussel, this volume of Best Women’s Erotica of the Year, Volume 3 published by Cleis Press is a treasure trove of daring, surprising, passion-filled stories. Find it on Amazon here.
The Invisible Divorce by Megan Fleming,PhD
That’s right! Girl Boner’s resident sex and relationship expert, Dr. Megan Fleming, has written a book. The how-to guide walks the reader through proven steps to restoring lost sparks and intimacy when you feel more like roommates than lovers. It’s super digestible and a light, encouraging read, even given the heaviness of the underlying topic. At about 75 pages and chock-full of Megan’s positivity and practical suggestions, Invisible Divorce can make the journey to rekindling lost connection less intimidating and a lot more fun! Nab it on Amazon here.
A DIY Sexy Gift Basket
Why stop at one sexy gift? In response to a listener’s question on choosing a toy for your partner, Dr. Megan Fleming suggested putting together a basket of sexy goodies, from a cock ring, mini vibe or butt plug to flavored or temperature-shifting lube. Victoria suggested Sliquid lube, and I chimed in on Good Clean Love—where you can also purchase aphrodisiac love oils that smell different on everyone, based on personal body chemistry.
TalkSpace
Some of the most loving gifts show care for the recipient’s wellbeing. Emotional wellbeing sets the stage not only for stronger intimacy and arousal, but for more vibrancy throughout our lives. I’m gaga for TalkSpace, an online therapy service that provides 24/7 access via text, audio or video message and daily feedback from a credentialed therapist you’re matched up with. And yes, they offer couple’s therapy, too!
To save $30 and support Girl Boner at the same time, sign up or purchase a gift card at TalkSpace.com/Boner.
Now it’s your turn! What’s sexy gifts have you given or received? Let me know in the comments below. If I share your response on Girl Boner Radio, I’ll only mention your first name or initials! For full anonymity, send me your response privately here.
***For sexy Cyber Monday specials, visit this link on Victoria’s site. To save 50% off most any item at Adam & Eve, use the code BONER.
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