Feeding our bellies when our hearts are hungry may help for a little while, but it won't do away with the wound. Most all of us have …
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Spicy and Special Holiday Gifts For Your Partner
It's that time of year again, when sugarplums boogie to that old favorite: "Jingle bells, jingle bells, OHMYGOD, what should I get for …

Hope for Healing and Equality Amid Post-Election Blues
I shot out of bed before dawn, with an odd mix of Christmas-giddiness and an emotional flu. By the day’s end, I'd either be celebrating the …

What To Do When Your Partner Needs Porn for Sex
I recently received a question I've heard various forms of many times since starting Girl Boner®: My boyfriend can't seem to get or stay …

How to Feel Sexy in a Youth-Obsessed Culture
I dream of a society where increasing age isn't a demeaning punchline. It boggles my mind, how often we hear statements like: "I'm …