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Objects from Broken Relationships: To Keep or Not to Keep? + the Stories They Tell

August 31, 2017

Mine was a wedding dress. Sleek, satin and seemingly meant for me—or so I’d thought, when I spotted it at a vintage shop in Minneapolis. When the marriage ended, I held onto it. But the longer the dress hung in my closet, the more it felt…wrong. Why keep something that symbolized a relationship that had ended? Would I meet someone new, if I held on to the past? 

I don’t see see such things as quite so black and white now, but I find the whole topic fascinating: When is it healthy to hang on to objects of affection, once the affection is no longer? Is it ever unhealthy? What do others do with these objects of affection?

If I hadn’t auctioned my dress off on eBay some years ago, I would probably consider donating it to the Museum of Broken Relationships in Los Angeles. Yes, that’s a thing! And a glorious one, at that. If you haven’t yet checked it out, I highly recommend it.

Last month, I visited the museum with a few friends, Karina, Rayne and Erin, and interviewed the director, Alexis Hyde. We gabbed about the museum then took Girl Boner Radio listeners on an audio tour of a few of its most striking objects—including silicone breast implants, a dress from a stalker and pubic hair. Each item has a story—some are funny, some haunting, some heartbreakingly sad—and all speak to the power of love connections, even after they’ve fallen apart.

Learn what my pals and I think of holding on to relationship keepsakes, powerful takeaways from our tour and more! I finished the episode with Dr. Megan Fleming, as we shared thoughts for a listener who wishes lingering emotional trauma from her own ex-relationship would diminish. I’m so grateful for her question, as I’m sure it’ll resonate with many.

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Do you keep items from broken relationships? What would you donate, if you could? What did you think of the episode?

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  1. Aurora Jean Alexander says

    September 1, 2017 at 4:49 pm

    I loved this episode, August.
    To many women separating from things that had been gifts from ‘exes’ can be part of the healing. (just in case the separation caused heartache). As for me: I haven’t ever gotten ‘much’ out of my relationships…. at least nothing that valuable that I couldn’t easily give it away.
    Once I got a red sweater and a matching necklace and it was both so damned cheap I threw the sweater in the trash and gave the necklace to a schoolgirl – I HATE red…
    I never wore any jewelry I got from one of my exes… some I never wore I gave away as gifts, a few I sold.
    Only one I handed BACK right away and told my ex: “Listen… I’m a modest person and I’m happy about a gift, even if it isn’t too expensive, as long as it has a meaning for us. – But this doesn’t mean, only because it has a heart I won’t accept a necklace that turns my skin green and looks like you bought it at Walmart for 4.99.” The next necklace was a bit better…
    I had never much problems getting rid of the things in my life that took me back into a relationship that wasn’t mine… maybe except the last one – but we’ll talk about that in fall, when I’m in California.

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    • August McLaughlin says

      September 12, 2017 at 12:54 pm

      So glad this struck you, AJ! I look forward to that story about the last one.

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